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Secret Singles Social Event For Black Singles In NYC
July 7, 2023 @ 8:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Come and check out this revolutionary new event for black singles in NYC.
WHAT IS SECRET SINGLES SOCIAL?
Secret Singles Social is an event that is changing the way people meet people in NYC. Have you ever been at a bar or lounge, looked around and wondered, “Who is single in here?”. This event was born when the founder of the company found himself sitting at a bar and wondering exactly that. He then thought, “Wouldn’t it be cool to know who was single?”. The light bulb went off and he created the Secret Singles Social Event…
This event is the perfect, laid back way to meet other black singles at your own pace without the endless swiping on dating apps and the pressure of going on one on one dates.
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WE DO DIFFERENT AGE RANGES FOR EACH SECRET SINGLES SOCIAL EVENT SO CHECK THE CALENDAR BELOW FOR EVENT DATES AND AGE RANGES:
EVENT CALENDAR:
FRIDAY JULY 7th – AGES 20s & 30s
WEDNESDAY JULY 19th – AGES 30s & 40s
FRIDAY AUGUST 4th – AGES 40s & Over (All Singles ages 40 and over are welcome)
WEDNESDAY AUGUST 16th – AGES 30s & 40s
FRIDAY SEPTEMBER 1st – AGES 20s & 30s
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QUICK IMPORTANT NOTE:
There will be singles from other ethnic groups attending this event as well but we invited a lot of black singles so we expect a good amount of black singles in attendance. All black singles will have a unique secret symbol (explained below) so you’ll easily be able to find the other black singles in attendance… However you’re certainly not limited to mingling only with the other black singles at the event. Feel free to mingle and converse with any of the other singles in attendance.
SECRET LOCATION & SECRET SYMBOL:
Each Secret Singles Social Event is held at a different secret location in Manhattan. We always choose quality bars that are generally somewhere near midtown. We choose venues that are easy to get to for most people in NYC (We don’t pick places above 79th St. or Below 25th St. so they are easy for most people to get to by Subway or Uber). This is not a structured or overly organized event. Think of it as a fun alternative to going to grab some drinks at a bar alone. Feel free to come with a friend/s as well. We’d say about 75% of the crowd comes on their own. We kept the event price much more affordable than a standard singles event so everyone can afford it.
After signing up you will get an email from us with the location of the event. In that email we’ll also give you a secret symbol that will let the other attendees know you’re part of the event. You will draw that secret symbol on the back of your hand with a marker or pen before arriving at the event (for those who don’t want to write on their hand you can simply make a bracelet out of a piece of paper, tape it around your wrist and draw the symbol on the piece of paper). See the image at the bottom of this page to understand what we mean.
Then you simply show up at the venue at the listed start time and get started meeting people. There are no name tags, no host and no awkward check-in process. This means that only you and the other attendees will even know that you’re at a singles event! (The venue is not directly involved with the event so please don’t ask their staff questions as they likely won’t have answers)…
You’ll simply look for other people with the secret symbol on their hand to know they’re also single and part of the event.
ICEBREAKERS TO WIN A $50 AMAZON GIFT CARD!
Before the event we’ll also email you icebreaker questions that you can use to get to know the rest of the singles at the event. The icebreakers are optional but most people love them because they really help you get to know people and gauge compatibility. In the email we send you before the event we’ll explain exactly how the icebreaker works but essentially you’ll be asking and/or being asked 3 icebreaker questions. If you complete the icebreaker you’ll be entered into a raffle and one of the event attendees will win a $50 Amazon gift card!
EXAMPLES OF SOME OF OUR FUN ICEBREAKER QUESTIONS:
* If you had a time machine – where would you take it to? Would you stay there?
* Do you usually follow your heart or your head?
* Would you rather live for one year on an island by yourself or for one year in a small apartment with 7 strangers?
* What is one thing you’ve always wanted to cross off your bucket list, but haven’t yet?
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING ABOUT SECRET SINGLES SOCIAL EVENTS:
“I was getting tired of the endless swiping on dating apps so thought I’d try something new. It was refreshing meeting people in real life in such a laid back and relaxed way”.
“An ingeniously mysterious and fun way to meet singles” – Social Vibes Podcast
“It basically just looked and felt like I was just having a cocktail at a bar but at the same time I also to interact with some cool people. My best friend met her current boyfriend at one of these events so I thought I’d give it a try. I was happy I did. It was a great experience.” .
“I loved the icebreaker questions because it takes the pressure off having to come up with something to talk about”
WHAT THIS EVENT IS NOT:
Keep in my that there are no hosts and this not an overly structured or organized event. It’s just a fun, clever way to meet other singles in your age range. Essentially we’re providing you with a meeting place and an activity to help you make connections. It’s the perfect way to meet people at your own pace. We’ve witnessed countless relationships and connections form at Secret Singles Events so come on out!
FAQ:
HOW MANY WILL BE ATTENDING?
It ranges from event to event. We usually have between 15 and 50 people sign up.
WHAT IS THE AGE RANGE?
It varies from event to event so check the calendar. If you’re within a few years of the suggested age range you’re welcome to attend.
CAN I COME ALONE?
Yes, about 75% come on their own.
WHAT IS THE DRESS CODE?
While we don’t have a dress code we ask that you please look neat/presentable. What you wear to work, for after work drinks or on a semi casual date is likely fine.
CAN I PAY AT THE EVENT DOOR?
We do not accept payment at the event door. We also change the venue at each event and don’t give out the location to those who don’t sign up. You must pre-pay online.
HOW LONG DOES THE EVENT GO?
The event is 2 hours long, however the venue won’t kick you out after 2 hours. So if you’re having some good conversation you’re welcome to stay there as long as you’d like.
IS THERE A REFUND POLICY?
If you need to cancel, please email us and we can transfer you to a future event. However we do not offer transfers if you cancel on the day of the event or don’t show up.